The Rebellious Singleton: Overcome Life's Obstacles - Find your Soul Purpose

The Rebellious Singleton looks like a great book.  What can you tell us about it?

The book is written from a single woman for other single women who face many  challenges in finding and living  their true purpose in life. The book is based on my own life’s challenges, how I have overcome the challenges and found my soul purpose.


Any plans to turn it into a series?

That is a great question.   I haven’t thought about it yet. But now that you are asking me, I could create a miniseries. The book titles that come to mind right away are ‘Self-love and the single woman’ and ‘Life MOT for the busy Singleton’. I will think about it.


What scene or section did you have the most fun writing?

The Rebellious Singleton is a self-help book which hasn’t got any scenes or sections in it. I had fun writing the entire book, word by word and page by page. I have written my book in a book editor which counts the words I write. While I was writing the book I could see how many words I was writing on a daily basis. That is for me part of the fun writing a book.

What inspired the idea for the book?

Each year more females become single either out of choice or due to negative experiences throughout their lives. I feel that every single woman should have the right to live the life they deserve. That is often easier said than done because society expects us to follow the rules in getting married and have children. Some women really want to get married and have children. They would stay with their husbands even if they cheat or mistreat their wife.

Other women are told to follow society’s expectations although they would love to embrace their single life and find out who they really are and what they can achieve in life.

I am the single woman who has decided long time ago not to follow the rules of society and live the life I manifested as a teenager. It was not easy because obstacles popped up and I had to deal with them before I could continue my path.

And with all these experiences in mind I have written the book highlighting that it can be a real challenge to live the life you truly want but with perseverance, willpower and courage it can be done.


How did you come up with the title for the book?

I always felt as if I am the rebel of the family. So for me it was easy to come up with the title ‘The Rebellious Singleton’.


What do you like to do when not writing?

One of my most favourite hobbies is travelling.  Before becoming self employed I worked in the airline industry. I loved my job and hence had the chance to travel quite a bit.

I am also an animal lover. I have a cat called Penny. She is a black half a Persian.

I am an assistant teacher with a group of British ladies and gentlemen. We meet up every two weeks to hold conversations in German.

In addition, I love watching quiz shows on TV, enjoy going to the theatre and opera.  I am also a lover of good food, with Mexican food being my favourite.


Where can readers find out more about your work?

I have a website On this website my readers can find out more about what I do and the services I offer.

My readers can follow me on TikTok (@soulplanreader) and Instagram (@thisismonika44) and YouTube (@thisismonika)


What are your plans for the future of your business?

My big passion is helping women change their lives by teaching them how to go about it step by step. For that reason, I have started creating online courses and a possible membership. And obviously I will be writing more books.